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Flakey Foontime
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altfriday5:
1. When was the last time you inadvertently flaked out on an obligation (as in, you forgot it)?
I can't remember. Maybe I forgot one now. Maybe I'm forgettign a whole bunch of them. OhgodOhgodOhgodOhgod.....
2. When was the last time you deliberately flaked out on an obligation (as in, you remembered it, but decided to flake)?
See below. I generally only flake on things if it's forced on me, I don't willingly do it.
3. How often do you flake out on obligations in general?
Almost never. If I say I'm going to be somewhere or do something, generally I'm there or I do it, that is if I'm on my own. It's more difficult when I make plans to go somewhere or do something when L is involved; she's more likely to change her mind than I am.
4. How often do people flake out on you in general?
It depends on the person, really. Not that often; most of the people I know are fairly dependable. I hope I am dependable in turn.
5. How do you usually feel when you flake out or when someone flakes out on you?
Bad; worse when I do it, because if someone else flakes out on me I'm disappointed in what happened, but if I flake out, I have to live with not only the disappointment that I caused someone else but also my disappointment with myself that I can't keep my word.
altfriday5:1. When was the last time you inadvertently flaked out on an obligation (as in, you forgot it)?
I can't remember. Maybe I forgot one now. Maybe I'm forgettign a whole bunch of them. OhgodOhgodOhgodOhgod.....
2. When was the last time you deliberately flaked out on an obligation (as in, you remembered it, but decided to flake)?
See below. I generally only flake on things if it's forced on me, I don't willingly do it.
3. How often do you flake out on obligations in general?
Almost never. If I say I'm going to be somewhere or do something, generally I'm there or I do it, that is if I'm on my own. It's more difficult when I make plans to go somewhere or do something when L is involved; she's more likely to change her mind than I am.
4. How often do people flake out on you in general?
It depends on the person, really. Not that often; most of the people I know are fairly dependable. I hope I am dependable in turn.
5. How do you usually feel when you flake out or when someone flakes out on you?
Bad; worse when I do it, because if someone else flakes out on me I'm disappointed in what happened, but if I flake out, I have to live with not only the disappointment that I caused someone else but also my disappointment with myself that I can't keep my word.
